Payne With Purpose — The ARC Protocol: Choose Your Own Transformation Adventure

Payne With Purpose: The Self-Development Dungeon

I am a: Coach. Rite of Passage Facilitator. Guide. Healer. Teacher. Disciplinarian.

Welcome.

You're seeking something profound. Sensory. A way to connect with your soul-to heal-to set yourself free from the weight of trauma, and the burden of shame. You're looking for something-that will make your heart light, your mind clear, and reignite your truest-most powerful inner self.

Perhaps you are tired of shrinking-tired of cramped creativity and dulled-down joy. Maybe you just want to experience the release of surpassing your own limitations, or feeling your body set on fire so your soul can fly.

If you struggle with anxiety, bad habits, unresolved trauma, or just a sense of numbness and disconnect from the world as a whole- WELCOME.
If you want to find your way back to your body, full of self- awareness and self-confidence- WELCOME.
If you want to reconnect with your courage, or dream of experiencing the emotional, mental and physical challenges of a Rite of Passage- WELCOME.
If you're a dopamine/adrenaline "junkie" and just need a novel experience... WELCOME.
If you are just seeking a mental break- some imaginative play, and physical sensations that help you feel alive again- WELCOME.

Or perhaps, you’ve tried everything to address that habit-overcome that challenge in your life, or need a strong type of accountability to set you back on your path- WELCOME.

You have found the right “Dungeon”.

In this space, you can refer to me as Mistress Payne, and I look forward to bringing you past and through.

Mistress Mia Payne

Sessions

Power Exchange Accountability

Trying to eat healthier? Lose weight? Quit smoking?

Do you have a tangible, trackable personal goal you would like support to achieve, and would gamifying it with a little adult fun make it more attainable?

You've come to the right place. Reach out to start the conversation-these service fees are calculated individually, but generally are a monthly fee.
Virtual Play

Daily Check in and tasks, plus daily messaging through Telegram. Includes a free subscription to my self-created app-which is where assignments and tasks, as well as journaling and consequences are created and fulfilled.

May be used as an add on to in-person services, or as a stand alone option.
Therapeutic BDSM Sessions

Utilizing BDSM skills, and the body's responses to sensation and movement, I help individuals with fascia activation, emotion release and integration, trauma processing, and self-embodiment. I am Certified in this Modality.
Releasing Through Rope

Deep Pressure Therapy meets Kink-meets Art!
In this session, accompanied by restful music and low-lighting, you will experience being enveloped by ropes, and enjoy the peace of just "being".

Suspension is optional and always pre-negotiated.
Couples/Polycule Coaching

Couples/Cules sometimes need help getting unstuck-help to find their way back to one another. I offer both Kink and Vanilla Intimacy Coaching.

Kink Coaching is assistance in starting or enhancing a power dynamic, and Intimacy coaching helps the couple/cule to communicate, move past "stuck" places and to return to a deep intimate connection-with or without kink.

For many couples, this coaching inter-weaves both.
Mistress Mentorship

Spend an entire weekend with me, training to be the best Domme you can be!
Learn not only the tricks and tools, but all about energy, flow, transitions, and the mental/psychological and emotional aspects of this work.

Price includes a small starter tool kit, Friday Afternoon to Sunday Afternoon instruction, and 6 months of mentorship.

Does not include overnight accommodations.
Play With Purpose Classes and Solo Lessons

One of my favorite things, is to teach others-especially those new to kink-skills, safety, and the deeper more connective aspects of Kink and BDSM in relationships.
Partner Training

If you are a kink-friendly couple, and could use a fun infusion of "spice", this can be really amazing.
One partner, who needs to change a habit, works with me as a D/s accountability partner, while the other partner feeds me intel.

It can be very sexy for the couple, and it's fun for everyone!